Mad Men – Person to Person

Mad Men - Person to Person

Mad Men – Person to Person

Mad Men - Person to Person

Well, the end has come. What do you think of how the Mad Men era came to a close? The final episode that aired Sunday night was good, not great I think. It had some great moments though.

The title of the episode, “Person to Person”, refers to three person-to-person phone calls Don makes in this episode. He makes them to the three most important women in his life – Sally, Betty, and Peggy, in that order. In his dons last call to bettyphone conversation with Sally, he learns Betty is dying from lung cancer. He hangs up the phone and calls Betty in one of the most emotional scenes of the episode. She answers in her pink ruffle robe as she sits on the bed near her nightstand that is covered in tissues and medicine bottles. Don’s first instinct is to come to New York and get the children so he can raise them; he is, after all, their father. But Betty has it planned out already and nixes Don’s idea with some painful truth. She believes bettys last call with donthe children living with her brother and his wife is the best thing for them because they will be raised by a “regular family” that way. “Oh, wait, Don. When is the last time you saw them?” she asks. And then the killer, “I want to keep things as normal as possible,” she says. “And you not being here is part of that.” It’s the reality he has created for himself and hearing her say it, combined with the reality of her illness, brings them both to tears.

He continues his journey west and ends up at the door of Stephanie, Anna’s daughter. He tries to give her the ring that belonged to her mother. She refuses but invites him to join her on a retreat. Having no real plans, he agrees to go with her. It’s a retreat full of things like yoga and meditation. At a group session they both attend, Stephanie ends up in tears when she expresses her pain and the feeling she’s being judged by people because of all the mistakes she has made, including giving up her child and not wanting to be reunited with him (Mothers who don’t feel the mother-child bond – Don’s step-mom, Peggy and her child, and now Stephanie and her child). Another group member’s response to her confession sends her running from everyonestephanie person to person in tears. Don goes after her and tells her he can help her put it behind her and get on with her life. He tells her it will get easier in time, because it has for him. She strongly disagrees and leaves. The next morning she and his new car are gone. He learns from someone at the retreat that there is no way for him to leave early without a car. In his anger over this and the fact that no one knows where she went, he says to one of the women running the retreat, “People just come and go, and no one says goodbye?” Um . . . a bit of the pot calling the kettle black there Mr. Draper?

At this point, he makes his third person-to-person call to the third important woman in his life – Peggy Olson. She tells him everyone is angry about him just taking off and he sarcastically asks if the place fell apart without him. No, it didn’t. Life has gone on for everyone at McCann-Erickson without him. And his ex-wife is going to die without him. And his children will be raised in a “regular family” without him. And Stephanie doesn’t want his help. Don begins an emotional descent. Peggy wants to know what he’s been doing. “I don’t know,” he responds. “I have no idea.” Peggy tells him he “can come home.” So, he has firmly and clearly been told he can’t go home to his children, but he can go home to the place he worked, which in many ways has been more of a home for him than his family home for years. He sounds despondent as he tells Peggy, “I messed everything up. I’m not the man you think I am . . . I broke all my leonard person to personvows. I scandalized my child. I took another man’s name and made nothing of it.” She reassures him and he tells her he only called because he realized he never told her goodbye. He’s crying when they end their call. He sits on the ground,  crying, shaking, trying to take deep breaths to calm himself.

A group leader finds him and takes him to a group where a character we’ve never seen brings Don to tears. Leonard gets to Don. He talks about people not noticing him and then says, “It’s like no one cares that I’m gone.” This pulls Don’s attention away from the internal self-hate talk he was having as he stared at the floor. He listens to Leonard explains that he doesn’t feel loved, but that maybe people are trying to love him and he just doesn’t know love when he sees it. He sobs and Don rises from his chair. He walks to him and holds him as they both cry. He’s not alone in this feeling.

The last great moment is the closing minutes of the show. In last week’s episode, Don was asked to fix a Coke machine. Coke has always been a sally washing dishes person to personchallenge for him. It’s the account he has always wanted. In this week’s episode, Joan does cocaine with Richard (who leaves her in this episode by the way), and when Don calls Peggy she asks him if he doesn’t want to come back and work on the Coke account that McCann-Erickson promised him. And this week’s episode, the end of Mad Men, closes with Coke in a beautiful way. We watch Pete and Trudy board a Lear jet with their daughter, Joan take calls for her production company, Roger and Marie in a French cafe, Sally wash dishes as Betty smokes a cigarette, and Peggy type a letter while Stan rubs her shoulders and kisses her forehead.

Then we see ad exec, wealthy, man-of-the-world Don Draper in a yoga session at the end of the retreat. He’s sitting cross-legged with his back to the ocean as the yoga instructor speaks about the new day bringing new hope, new opportunities, new ideas, “a new you”. All is peaceful and calm, even Don. They all close their eyes and begin chanting, “Om.” A chime rings, Don smiles, and a classic commercial begins to play. We know what it is as soon as the woman sings, “I want to buy the world a home . . .” We go from a closeup of Don’s face to the closeup of a woman singing in the commercial, “and furnish it with love.” The rest of the commercial plays us to the end of the episode. It’s the perfect union of Don coming to peace with who he is, the good and the bad, and the birth of an idea that will bring him great success in the career he seems to have been born for. Of course, it’s a big hit and is a personal victory as he wows the account he has always dreamed of having.

P.S. The thing with Stan rubbing Peggy’s shoulders and kissing her forehead, they end up together. Viewers have had mixed emotions about this one. I love it. It felt forced and rushed in this episode. It would have been nice to see it play out over a few episodes. But it’s right. I have long thought they should end up together. How long have they been having phone calls that go on and on at all hours of the day or night? How many times have they been having these conversations and she puts down the phone to do something while he waits for her to come back? And she always does. How many times has she called him when she was confused or frustrated? Who did she confess her pregnancy to? It’s right.

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Mad Men – The Milk and Honey Route

Mad Men – The Milk and Honey Route

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This week’s Mad Men episode followed the stories of three characters – Betty, Pete, and Don. Grab your hanky, because it’s an emotion rollercoaster. Let’s begin with the hard hitting, tragic news about Betty.

In this week’s episode, Betty is diagnosed with lung cancer. The doctor says she has maybe a year to live. They can try to treat it, but all any treatment will likely do is prolong her life a few months. Henry initially reacts in the way he always reacts, trying to think of names of big doctors he knows, trying to think of who may know the most cutting-edge treatments, basically trying to figure out what political connections he has that may help. In frustration with Betty over her apparent surrender to the disease, he yells, “What do you think would happen to Nelson Rockefeller if he got this?” To which Betty responds, “He would die!” An acknowledgment and acceptance of the truth before Henry is ready to do the same.

One of a few touching scenes this week was Henry visiting Sally without Betty’s knowledge. He urges her to come home and try to get her mother to agree to treatment. “Your mother is sick. She has lung cancer, and it’s very advanced.” Sally turns from him, tears fill her eyes, and she puts her hands over her ears as if she can shut out the tragic truth. Sally fights her tears as he continues talking and he finally tells her it’s okay for her to cry. As she turns and looks at him, still fighting the tears, he breaks down. Sally is as shocked as we are when he, Betty’s rock and historically a man of strength, leans forward, puts his head in his hands, and cries. Sally looks at him in shock for a moment, then hesitantly places her hand on his back in comfort. “Jesus, what am I going to do?” he cries. A great scene with the two of them. Two people who seem tough, breaking downSally covers ears together and trying to comfort each other.

When Henry spoke with Sally about her mother’s illness, he told her he doesn’t know if Betty is refusing treatment because she’s stubborn or because she’s vain. Sally later accuses her of not doing it because she enjoys the tragedy of it all. But the truth is, as Betty tells Sally, that she’s “learned to believe people when they tell you it’s over. They don’t want to say it, so it’s usually the truth.” She tells Sally that she watched her mother die and won’t put Sally through that. Then she tells her this decision doesn’t make her a quitter. “I fought for plenty in my life. That’s how I know when it’s over. It’s not a weakness. It’s been a gift to me. To know when to move on.” Indeed she has. Betty has constantly fought for one thing or another in the show. She has had as many ups and downs as any character and finally seemed to have gotten her life together. This was tough to see.

Betty gives Sally a letter to open “the minute you know I’m gone.” Of course, Sally opens it sooner than that. In the letter, Betty tells Sally she loves her, if not the only time, one of very few times we’ve seen her do that. Sally clutches the letter to her chest and cries and many viewers cried right along with her.

Pete Campbell has a more pleasant story. Through some finagling pete and trudy reuniteby Duck Phillips, who is still fighting a losing battle with alcohol, Pete lands a job with Lear Jet. They give him a million dollars because that’s what he’s losing by leaving McCann-Erickson. He’ll be moving to Wichita (where Don is in the beginning of this episode – Pete is still following Don) and will have jets at his beck and call, relationships with celebrities – everything he’s ever wanted and more. Except Trudy and Tammy. He goes to Trudy and woos her. He wants to start over and swears he has learned his lesson and will never hurt her again. At dinner with his brother a couple of nights before, he told his brother he didn’t need to keep looking for something else, something different. When his brother talked about his own cheating, Pete said, “I think it feels good, and then it doesn’t.” Perhaps he has changed. Although, as Duck said right before his drunken exit, “It doesn’t last long.” Pete is as high in his life as he has ever been. Will he make the best of it and live happily ever after? Or will he do as so many characters on Mad Men have done and repeat old mistakes? We’ll never know. But Pete and Trudy have always had great chemistry and they both beamed with happiness when she agreed to move with him and try again. It was the high point of the show.

Don’s story was not particularly high or low, although there was one scene I found painful to watch. The episode began with him dreaming about being pulled over by a policeman. They’ve caught up with him. They’ve been looking for him for years, and they’ve found him. His secret is found out. This touches on the question everyone is asking – will he resume his real name and begin a new life as Dick Whitman? He has fled his life as Don Draper and the guilt of the lie upon which he built that life keeps eating at him. How is he going to end up dealing with it?

After waking he gets back on the road and has car trouble. He ends up staying at a small motel while his car is fixed, they have to order the part and it will be a few days. The husband of the owner is a war vet and Don joins him for a fundraising dinner the town veterans are landscape-1431323173-dontravelhaving for one of their own who had a fire at his home. Don sweats for a minute at the dinner when he is introduced to another man who served in Korea. He lets out a sigh of relief when it turns out he was home before the other man arrived in Korea. He also tells part of his story at that dinner, after many drinks. He tells them he killed his CO when he dropped his lighter in a fuel covered area, causing an explosion. He tells them, “I got to come home,” but doesn’t tell them about his assumed identity.

The scene I found difficult to watch happens in the middle of the night after the dinner. There’s a young man in this episode who is very much like a young Don Draper. He’s looking to get rich and doesn’t care what his parents think about how he does it. He’s a con man. He gets Don to pay him for little favors while he’s staying at the motel. Don sees him for what he is and throughout the episode and, in an effort to help Andy avoid going down the road he has, gives him advice he wishes someone had given him when he was Andy’s age. Andy steals the donations from the dinner and leads everyone to believe Don did it. A bunch of the vets, all very drunk, barge into Don’s room in the middle of the night and slam him across the face with the phone book and throw accusations at him. He claims innocence, but they don’t believe him and tell him he has until morning to return the money.

When Andy shows up the next morning, Don pushes him onto the bed and tells him to give him the money, pack his things, and leave town. When Andy denies it, Don pushes him. Andy finally confesses but says he can’t leave town without the money. Don gives him a speech about how stealing that much money is a big deal and if he doesn’t make it right, he’ll have to take on a new identity and run from this mistake the rest of his life. He tells him that kind of life is not what he thinks it is. Don should know.

Well in the end, Andy gives him the money. Don turns it in without telling the motel owner’s husband that Andy is the guilty party. As he leaves the motel, Andy stops him and asks for a ride to the bus stop. Don tells him to get in.

Then the end of the show. They reach the bus stop, and Don turns off the engine and hands the keys to Andy. “Don’t waste this,” he says and gets out of the car and takes a seat on the bench at the bus stop. He has, with this one act, given Andy a chance at a decent future and freed himself of his last possession that ties him to his identity as Don Draper. “Everyday” starts playing as Andy drives off in a brand new Caddy and Don smiles.

Here is the scene where Sally reads Betty’s letter to her.

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Mad Men – The Forecast

Mad Men – The Forecast

Mad Men - The Forecast

This episode is titled The Forecast and is about Don Draper trying to find direction. In this last half of the final season he has embraced his vices and demons, then ended a past relationship and experienced a breakup with a woman very much like himself who he hoped to take with him on his efforts at leaving behind pain and guilt and getting on with life.This week he wonders what he is moving toward. He wants to put the past behind him and move on but wonders how to move on and to what?

The Forecast begins with Don’s realtor waking him. He’s asleep in bed, apparently naked, but alone. The realtor has potential buyers on the way and wants him up and out. Before he leaves she tells him she’s having trouble selling the apartment because it’s lonely. When he returns later she is angry because she didn’t have any luck with the showing because of the lonely feeling of the place. Don (Jon Hamm) tells her not to blame him for her failure. (He will make this same statement to someone else later in the episode.) She tells him it reeks of failure. She says it looks like someone sad lives there, someone who got a divorce and spilled wine on the carpet but doesn’t care enough even about himself to clean it up. When he tells her a lot of good things happened in that apartment, she says, “Well you can’t tell,” much like you can’t tell by Don’s current state of mind that lots of good things have happened in his life.

This episode makes progress with the lives of several characters. The next scene deals with one of them – Joan (Christina Hendricks). She is also awakened but by a phone call to her hotel room. It’s her mom, who is watching her son. Joan talks to her son until he accidentally hangs up.  Irritated, she makes a humorous call to room service for some breakfast. “I’d like some skim milk, grapefruit, and a pot of coffee, please.” Pause. Wait for it. “And some French toast,” she adds quickly. What a great character Joan is. So relatable.

When she goes into the office later, she introduces herself to a man she assumes is there for an interview. He isn’t, but plays along until Lou appears with the real interviewee. She ends up going out with the first man, Richard (Bruce Greenwood). He is divorced and retired and has one plan – no plans. He wants to travel the world and can afford to because he’s millionaire developer. His children are grown and he has nothing to keep him in one place. Joan on the other hand has a four-year-old son who limits her mobility and often leaves her mad-men-ep-710-joan-hendricks-284x184conflicted – another part of her character that so many women can relate to. (In one scene of this week’s show she looks at the babysitter and Kevin in her arms and yells, “You’re ruining my life,” and we wonder which of them she meant that for. She begins to storm out but stops short, with a regretful look on her face, when Kevin calls “bye-bye, Mommy,” and she responds “bye-bye, sweetie.”) Richard tells Joan he can’t deal with small children again, that part of his life is over he tells her. But by the end of the show he is apologizing and saying he is buying some property in New York and wants to spend time with her, her son, and her mother. “We’ll see,” she says and tells him he can call her. Bottom line, Joan isn’t going to let someone else call the shots for her life.

Throughout this episode, Don is working on a speech Roger has to give at an upcoming business retreat. It’s supposed to tell what the agency is going to look like in a year. It’s supposed to provide a forecast. In a conversation with Ted, he tells him there seems to be less to do and more to think about. Ted figures out that Don is trying to get material for Roger’s speech out of him. “He asked me first,” he tells Don. He says he considered doing it, but that he thought it would be better for Don to do it because he’s “so much better at painting a picture.” When Ted (Kevin Rahm) tells him of bigger accounts he hopes to have in the next year, Don finds those dreams lacking. “You madmen ted forecastknow, before McCann all I thought of was would we be in business next year?” Ted responds with, “Or would I be here at all?” which could be said of Don as well. Ted continues with, “Now it could be anything,” to which Don sighs and shrugs his shoulders. “Anything” is vague and empty. He has no idea what his “anything” is going to look like or even what he wants it to look like.

The Glen/Sally/Betty triangle comes to its probable close this week. He comes ostensibly to see Sally (Kiernan Shipka), but he and Betty (January Jones) are clearly attracted to each other. There is a shot with Sally standing between them, her eyes moving from one to the other as they converse, a grimace on her face as she watches them “ooze”, a word she will use to describe this encounter and one involving her father later in the show. Glen is now a handsome 18-year old, and he announces that he is leaving for the Army in a week. Sally blows up at him and storms off. She regrets it later and we wonder if Glen may not return from the war, leaving Sally feeling guilty about their last conversation. Betty says he is brave. This relationship has been odd from the beginning. She literally is old enough to be his mother, but she has been desperate for attention in the past and was drawn to Glen’s need for her attention and approval, even when he was just eight years old. Here’s the last scene with Betty and Glen.

Not because she doesn’t have feelings for him or because of the massive age difference, but because she’s married.  One last interesting thing about ghe scene above, the real reason he joined the Army, to avoid his stepdad’s wrath and gain his pride. Don joined the Army to escape his family. An interesting parallel. Part of why Betty feels drawn to him still and responds to his pass the way she does? Maybe.

There are a couple more scenes about Don searching for direction. “It’s supposed to get better,” he states at one point. When Peggy (Elisabeth Moss) tells him she wants to “create something of lasting value.” Don chuckles and says, “In advertising?” “This is supposed to be about my job, not the meaning of life,” she says. Don responds with, “So you think those mad.men_.peggy_things are unrelated?” They are completed related in his mind. They are the same thing. Or they have been. And that hasn’t worked out so well for him.

Then there’s Mathis (Trevor Einhorn), who storms into Don’s office to lay blame for the loss of a client (Peter Pan, the boy who doesn’t want to grown up, not coincidentally) at his feet because Mathis copied one of Don’s past techniques for dealing with an upset client and failed miserably. When he says the client was lost because of Don’s advice, Don repeats the statement he made to his realtor earlier, “Don’t blame your failure on me.” Mathis makes some comments about Lee Garner having sexual fantasies about him. Don tells him he has a foul mouth and that they lost the client because Mathis has no character, to which Mathis responds, “You don’t have any character either. Quit fooling yourself. You’re just handsome!” Don fires Mathis but appears to have taken Mathis’s comment to heart, because later in the episode he tells his daughter Sally that she is just like him and her mom, whether she wants to accept it right now or not. He tells her she is very beautiful and that it’s up to her to be more.

In our last scene, Don returns home to find realtor with some buyers as they are signing papers. It’s a couple. The husband is a stockbroker. They have a 4-year-old and a baby on the way. The realtor walks him outside the door while the couple signs the papers. She is thrilled about the sale. “Now we forecast endhave to find a place for you,” she says and goes back in the apartment. She closes the door behind her. He turns, and considers going back in the apartment to meet the buyers, a family with a future. He doesn’t though. Instead he turns with his back to the door and just stares at the floor. He has to find a place for himself, literally and figuratively, and he has no idea in what direction that place lies.

The closing music this week is the first verse of “The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face”. Appropriate. It’s how life used to be for Don Draper, how he was seen in his prime.

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